Mary Oldfield Napolitano

Mary Oldfield Napolitano

Saturday, August 10th, 1940 Monday, March 29th, 2021

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Obituary for Mary Louise Oldfield Napolitano

Mary Louise Oldfield Napolitano, RN
Teaneck, New Jersey
Mary Louise Oldfield Napolitano RN, Teaneck – Mary Louise Oldfield Napolitano, 80, passed away on March 29, 2021. Mary Lou was born in Suffern, NY and attended Sacred Heart school and Suffern High School. She was an outstanding athlete and played golf, tennis and basketball, once scoring 50 points in a CYO game. She received her nursing degree from St. Vincent School of Nursing in 1962 and worked at St. Vincent’s and Good Samaritan Hospital, Suffern, NY. Mary Lou received her BA from St. Thomas Aquinas College, NY and her MA from Kansas University in 1977. She returned to NY and worked at Mt. Sinai for 20 years while continuing her education in a PhD program at Fordham.
Mary Lou loved her nieces, nephews and cousins and adopted them as her own. She was always generous, loving and kind. She loved music, theater, books and a good movie. Mary Lou married the love of her life, Vincent Napolitano (West NY, NJ) in 1984. They settled in Teaneck and together they traveled to Ireland and Italy and enjoyed ocean cruises, family gatherings and many Italian restaurants. Mary Lou and Vinny were active in Holy Trinity Church, Hackensack, NJ and taught CCD.
Mary Lou is predeceased by her parents, Daniel and Gertrude and her brothers, Fr. Thomas, OAR, William and Fr. Jack, OAR. She is survived by her adoring husband, Vincent, her nephew Louis Napolitano, his wife May Ann and their three children, and many loving cousins.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, April 6, 2021 from 4-7 PM at Scarr Funeral Home, Suffern, NY. A funeral mass will be celebrated Wednesday, April 7, 2021 at 10:30 AM at Sacred Heart Church, Suffern, NY with a burial immediately following at Maryrest Cemetery, Mahwah, NJ. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to American Heart Association, New Jersey Chapter, in Mary Lou’s name.

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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, April 6th, 2021 | 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Scarr Funeral Home
    160 Orange Avenue
    Suffern, NY
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    Tuesday, April 6th, 2021
    4:00pm - 7:00pm
  • Service

    Wednesday, April 7th, 2021 | 10:30am
    Sacred Heart Church
    125 Lafayette Avenue
    Suffern, NY
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    Wednesday, April 7th, 2021
  • Interment

    Wednesday, April 7th, 2021 | 12:00pm
    Maryrest Cemetery
    Seminary Avenue, Seminary Avenue
    Mahwah, New Jersey
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    Wednesday, April 7th, 2021

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Hank Behrens sent flowers to the family of Mary Louise Oldfield Napolitano.
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Mary Lou you are missed already but we know you are looking over us from above and we will all meet again. Vincent is your soul mate so wrap your angel wings around him for comfort and peace. You are such a big part of our lives and our hearts. Thank you for always spoiling us and making us feel so special and loved.
Love Susan McDermott Daley and Joe Daley
Comment | Posted at 10:17pm via Condolence

Mary jo

We have so many wonderful memories of good times shared. We will miss her but she will always be remembered. I could not have had a better friend for 75 precious years.
Comment | Posted at 07:41pm via Condolence

Marianne Crouter

To My Forever Friend Mary Lou,
We enjoyed over 70 years of friendship. Growing up on Bridge Street as young girls and having so many adventurers! From attending school together at Sacred Heart being a Bridesmaid at my wedding at Scared Heart 1961, you were always an important part of my life!
Being part of the Oldfield Clan was wonderful. Your sweet Mom, and unique and special brothers made life fun!
We've been blessed to share our lives over the years. I will miss our conversations. No matter how far apart we were or how long it had been since we talked, we always just picked up where we left off!
Memories are the legacy of love: Mary Lou you will be missed by all who loved you.
Sid and I send our deepest sympathy to you Vincent and your families.
Your Forever Friend,
Marianne Isner Crouter
Comment | Posted at 04:54pm via Condolence

Hank Behrens

Our deepest sympathy and condolences go out to Vincent and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Love, Behrens family
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May your heart and soul find peace and comfort. We will always keep you in our thoughts. Love, Michael & Adela Best & Eugenia Serrano
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